Going Blonde
Have you found yourself turning your head every time you see a blonde with long, straight hair walk by? Perhaps now, as you lie upon your bed at night, you're starting to entertain thoughts of going blonde yourself. Hey, slow down and let's consider whether this would be a good choice for you.
Admittedly, if you're contemplating lightening your hair, you're definitely considering a significant change in your life. Boredom with your current reflection in the mirror can easily lead to dissatisfaction and discouragement. Ask yourself, what is the significance of these thoughts?
Here are a few questions to ask yourself before you dive into the realm of blondes:
• What is my current hair color, and is it complementing my appearance or detracting from it?
• What is the underlying reason for my dissatisfaction with my current color?
• Will blonde hair suit the color of my eyes and my skin tone?
• Am I aiming for a natural-looking blonde?
• Am I considering going blonde to conceal my natural color because I find my gray hair unattractive?
Whatever the reason, it's a good idea to ask yourself these balanced questions. Additionally, consider seeking input from a trusted friend, as they often provide valuable insights and see you differently than you see yourself.
Blonde is not for everyone!
It's remarkable to see someone who has been blonde for years suddenly appear with a warm golden brown hue. The difference is quite striking, and I've often wondered why they didn't make the change sooner. However, there's an old saying, 'once a blonde, always a blonde,' and don’t you believe it for a second!
There are several reasons why some individuals stick with being blonde. One reason is that they've grown accustomed to seeing themselves with that color. They jokingly tell me, 'I don’t even remember my natural color anymore.' Unfortunately, that's often the truth. Enveloped in this habit, they fail to realize how much more attractive they could look if their hair matched their brows and eyes. It's amazing what a difference that can make!
Consider the color of your eyes!
What kind of look are you aiming for? If you decide to go blonde, will it complement the color of your eyes, or will it leave you looking washed out? Are you prepared to wear more makeup than usual to balance the look?
For those with brown eyes, blonde hair can create a striking contrast. With the right makeup, this combination can be quite attractive. However, if the blonde shade is too pale or yellowish, it might lack distinction. Depending on your skin tone, a strawberry blonde or a neutral blonde could be more suitable.
Regardless of eye color, wearing a bit more makeup may become necessary. Even individuals with gray eyes benefit from some makeup to enhance their features. Pairing dull, pale blonde hair with gray eyes could result in a washed-out appearance. Conversely, blue and green eyes typically complement blonde hair well.
Choose a natural hair color!
If you're set on going blonde, opting for a natural shade is your best bet. Take a moment to observe the blondes you encounter during your daily activities. You'll likely notice that many have similar shades of blonde hair, almost like wearing a uniform and belonging to the same club.
Some women undergo such drastic lightening treatments that their hair loses all its natural color. Unfortunately, this often results in very dry and unhealthy hair. I'm guessing that's not the look you're aiming for.
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