Reduce Tightness of Curls

How can I reduce the tightness of the curls? Do I re-perm with larger rods or use a straightener? How long do I have to wait to do something? How long should I wait before coloring again? Thanks.
One recommendation I can make is for you to wrap your hair on the larger rods you desire, using a good cream conditioner as a "setting lotion". Cover the wrapped curls with a plastic cap and sit under a heated dryer for 20-30 minutes. This should soften the curls and help to relax them somewhat.
As for coloring the hair following a perm, I generally recommend that you give your hair at least a week, to allow the hair to "normalize" and allow the cuticle to contract against the hair shaft. Just be careful when coloring the hair using a lifting color formula. Since the hair is more porous from perming, the color could lift more and faster than expected, resulting in unexpected color results.
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See also:
Perms
Is it ok to color permed hair?
Frizzy and too curly hair after a perm
How to remove permed curls